Extramarital affairs have long been a significant issue that takes its toll on all parties involved. Much like Nicole, not every individual who finds themselves in the role of a ‘mistress’ planned for or aspired to such a position in life. Life often unfolds in unforeseen ways, influenced by various factors, including societal pressures, poor choices, moments of weakness, the specter of violence, and costly mistakes.

In her story, Nicole S. Brown candidly shares her experiences of dealing with racism, the pain it inflicts, the healing process she embarked upon, and the unwavering determination that helped her navigate the complex terrain of her life. Through it all, she describes a profound encounter with what she identifies as ‘God’s love,’ which played a pivotal role in shaping her journey.”

My back ground

‘’ I grew up in a rough neighborhood and aspired to make my life better by obtaining a quality education at the hands of people who did not want me to have it. ‘’My family home is and was extremely dysfunctional and there was bickering, and expletives said more than 80 percent of each day. My educational and writing endeavors were not supported by family’’.

‘’I am the youngest of seven children and because of that I was really not at all heard. I always had nine or more people always dictating to my life and I could never provide input into theirs or even get them off of my back until I started writing.

‘’They would be angry because they would read and say that I was punching them with my phrases. I had been writing since elementary school but never really desired to publish any books until after I had so many unpleasant experiences as a teacher due to personal information that was illegal, indecent, and defamatory  sent to each of my jobs  and the scandaltudent teacher6, was catalyzed in 1999, and the first revenge porn attack on my teacher career was in 2004 at Neville High School in Monroe, Louisiana as a student teacher at the University of Louisiana-Monroe.’’

‘’ I never aspired to be a teacher because many that I encountered were either diversity challenged or in extramarital affairs with my father.

My fifth-grade teacher was my dad’s mistress. So just for that alone, I didn’t desire to be a teacher. I instead desired to be a pharmacist and that never came to pass because of my being bullied and hazed by a sorority sister (Janae Burr) before, during, and after my initiation process of the Beta Theta Chapter of Zeta Phi Beta sorority because of her then boyfriend/first husband’s strong desire for me. Her name is Janae Burr. His name is Attorney Michael L. Tyler of the Tyler Law Firm in Baton Rouge, Louisiana.’’

‘’ I knew that Janae did not like me at all because she made constant disparaging comments about me and placed many obstacles in my life in college and career. We never had a conversation  other than one on how to help her son get enrolled in preschool. I would have become a pharmacist if Janae wasn’t allowed to bully and commit oh so many crimes against me at the University of Louisiana at Monroe , many were reported that she either played an indirect or direct role in orchestrating because in her mind , if I had earned a high paying job such as a pharmacist , she would no longer have a fighting chance with Michael’’

‘’ Janae grew up rich and popular. I was not that way, but I was and am astute, creative, kind, loving, and multitalented. I met Michael singing at a spring rush for Zeta Phi Beta, Beta Theta Chapter that my older sister was a member of, and my older brother was a member of Phi Beta Sigma, Kappa Kappa chapter that Michael L. Tyler was also a member of’’. ‘’ I was only in 12th grade when I sang because my sister put me on the program. It was appropriate for me to be on the program because I was a member of the high school auxiliary group for Zeta Phi Beta which is the Archonettes’’.

‘’I was not very talkative in my school years (K-12 or college). I only spoke when needed. I sang the song “Lonesome Dove” by Kurt Weill from the musical “Down in the Valley. I won a solo competition in high school singing that song. When competing, you say your name, your school, your voice part, the song, and the composer, then you sing.’’ ‘’ I did mostly the same procedure at the rush when I sang, but instead of saying the school, I said that I was an Archonette. I sang the song and walked outside the venue because I was not there to mingle just to perform.

”Michael was outside the venue when I walked out, He spoke to me and said  my speaking voice sent chills to his body , he asked me to sing to him privately. I had never heard such a compliment or better yet ever received that type of request. To be honest in the past and to this day, I felt and feel more comfortable singing in front of people than speaking.

”I know that it seems weird but what Michael requested was weird being that he had a girlfriend, and I knew it. I politely declined his request and just kept thanking him for numerous compliments that he overloaded me with’’. ‘’Then his girlfriend and other members of the fraternity came out and Michael told them that I’m overloading Nicole with compliments and she’s not paying me any attention…so when she comes to this school and becomes a Zeta… I’m going to make her fall in love with me. I told him that I was not even going to that school, but I do want to be a Zeta. It was not my goal to attend ULM .

. ‘’ It was an insult to my intelligence to attend that school because  I graduated from high school with a class rank of 71 of over 300 students in my senior class. That was graduating in the top 15 percent of my class at a then diversity challenged high school. I knew that ULM was diversity challenged and was already deeply hurt when I had to attend because I knew that I would not be treated fairly and was already tired of racism in my K-12 years. My K-12 years education was free and racist, but I was extremely distraught that I had to pay a school to be racist toward me. I hated and now hate that school. Michael was my only protection and my only good memory from that school’.

My dreams and what life had to offer

‘’My life did not turn out the way  I wanted or imagined  or dreamed it would ever be.

I dreamed of it being a fairy tale… get an education, get a job, and live happily ever after. Instead, I got an education with bullying going on the entire time , that crimes were reported and never justified on my behalf, got several jobs with workplace bullying reported  and never justified on my behalf, I was treated worse than a colossal cockroach in every school that I was employed at

Because of the first wife, Janae Burr, then second wife Leticia Childs-Salazar, and later the women collaborated together with a multitude of others.  I lost more than 13 jobs unfairly because of unreported revenge porn , professionals flipped the script on me , falsely accusing me of having no form of knowledge, no form of classroom management, being belligerent and hostile, being a whore and a homewrecker, and being unkind, uncaring, and unprofessional toward other colleagues and constituents.

Now these false accusers are extremely furious of my advances in my former education, teacher license endorsements in four US states (I now have 8 of them… Chemistry, physics, general science, vocal music, reading, PK-3, non-practicing school administrator, and early childhood), and authorship.  I’m an author of 15 books that are distributed in over 120 countries worldwide. 4 of the 15 books are about education, educational experiences and conceptual subject matter, and holidays’’.

‘’The books are School Days, Holidays, and All Days That Lie Between (very first book ever published, was a contender to be an additional textbook for teacher education curriculum at the University of Missouri, this book is in special collections of the University of Missouri library and Missouri Southern State University), More School Days, Holidays, and All Days That Lie Between, Many More School Days, Holidays, and All Days That Lie Between (most recent book that was featured in the Hong Kong Book Fair from July 19-July 25, 2023) The states that I’m certified in are Louisiana, Mississippi, Tennessee, and Missouri. ‘’ I was treated worse than a colossal cockroach in every school that I was employed at because of first Janae Burr, then Leticia Childs Salazar, and then them together with a multitude of others.

‘’ In neither of these schools that I worked at was I visibly in a romantic relationship with Michael Tyler. While I was employed at most of the schools, I was married to another man or in a relationship with another man, those men were visible at the schools not every day but enough for them to realize that I was in another relationship and was making extreme strides to stay away from Michael who was my best friend and only good memory from ULM.

”Michael was furious that I was in other relationships (and had children with other men) and took his frustrations about my decisions to be with other men out on his wives that the first one, Janae, he married while attending ULM and would not leave me alone. He fought off and threatened any man that came my way, that really may have desired to be in a legitimate relationship with me”.

”He also took his frustrations out on Leticia. Then they sent the unconsented indecent video footage to schools where I was employed, for me to be bullied, harassed, discredited, and tormented by the entire student  body (principals, teachers, secretaries, school district central office staff, students, custodians, parents, visitors, vendors, cafeteria staff, school level security and law enforcement, etc) at more than 13 schools because of extreme jealousy and envy brought on by women who did not do their wifely duties to Michael’’.

My relationship with former assistant attorney general of the gaming division in Louisiana and his ex-wives

” I am and was the secret to Michael’s success. His now ex-wives could not deal with Michael without my being in his life, his colleagues could not either, just multitudes of people cannot deal with Michael without my being in his life. He is gentler with others when I am around. I always saw and got his gentle side. I hated to see him angry. It hurt me on a molecular level.Michael did for me like a husband should have. My own former husband or other guys that I dated did not do that. Michael is and was better to me than my own family. He does and did things to help me without my asking”.

”I appreciate and appreciated that. The women that he married, I guess, did not get his gentle and providing side. I don’t really know because my time with Michael was about me and Michael and his and I being on one accord with the only functioning home that I ever had, the only sense of belonging that I ever had, the only person who genuinely cared about my well-being and my having things in life, my only real friend, the only human that ever really had my back”.

”He was my everything: my friend, my lover, my advisor, my protector, my confidant, my budgeter, my home manager, my tax preparer, my menu accepter, my companion, my comedian, my homie (we could talk about anything), my fantasy creation partner, my man to take out the trash, take care of everything, and when I had problems with anything… he took and takes charge of it without my asking… No one else in my life has ever done that. I kept my relationship with Michael secret and sacred until I left. I then didn’t say much about it. He did on many occasions, and I never confronted him about it because I cared about him and our relationship”

”People came to me with harsh comments about Michael and his abilities to lead and do other things and I  always defended him. I never said an ugly word or phrase to Michael in front of him or behind his back when we were involved even when I was upset with him and his decisions. I was upset about some things regarding Michael, but I focused on the fact that I was not getting the treatment  I got from him from anyone else including family. Michael L. Tyler is not a real villain. I am not either, I consider him a blessing now that I caught so much hell when I left and refused to go back”.

”Even people on jobs failed to do right by me and I did nothing wrong to them. It was and is legal to report crimes such as revenge porn or any attribute that is sent to a workplace in order to do harm and defame people’s character. Each of my workplaces were supposed to provide that service of safety and protection toward me as an employee instead they bullied, harassed, tormented, discriminated against, and discredited me”.

”Michael did make bad decisions when it came to commitment. I believe that he realizes it now and desires to do right by people. He was and is in most ways really good to me, that’s probably the reason for so many continued attacks from his now ex-wives, the schools, healthcare professionals, law enforcement, attorneys, government officials, businesses, churches among others, are going forth continuously because they realize that our relationship appeared to them to be counterfeit, but indeed it is and was genuine”

Michael  Tyler

Michael is not all bad, he is better than bad. He is the only person that I ever encountered, who desired for me to succeed. Michael is a great leader: he led me with ease for 10 years. He would have been a better man in politics and business .Many leaders do not realize how many lives they impact with their decisions that’s why you must seek God first in your decisions.  The Bible says seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all of these things will be added to you. The Bible also says give and it shall be given to you in good measure… pressed down, shaken together, and running over ….., Michael needs to just turn his life over to God and God will do the rest. He has a great future ahead of him and a great wife. I don’t desire  to be his wife  anymore at this point.

Advice for ladies

Don’t find a husband. Find God first and your husband will find you.